Sunday, January 23, 2011

Steve Harvey’s Ex-Wife Rains on his relationship Guru Status

 

Steve Harvey’s ex-wife Mary has decided to break her silence about her estranged husband.  In a series of three shocking videos below, Mary goes into detail about Steve’s affairs and seems to imply that Harvey has no business writing a book about relationships.  There is even a letter below from one of Steve’s mistresses that puts the “relationship guru” on blast:

Part 1

Part 2 of the Mary Harvey Testimonial:

Part 3 of the Mary Harvey testimonial below:

 

Below is a letter reportedly written by one of Steve’s Mistresses:

 

18 comments:

Anonymous said...

how do I know the above is true

Anonymous said...

Well, he may had been that way,butThey say you learn from your mistake and grown in bad relationships.And She was hurt by the relationship so now she can get paid for a tell all story. That's just like a hater he's getting bigger and she, Well I feel Hell Hath No Fury Like A Woman Scorned . SHE NOT THE FIRST TO BE LIE TO AND NOT GOING TO BE THE LAST TO BE LIE TOO. HAVE SOME PRIDE ABOUT YOURSELF AND MOVE ON. ALL YOU DOING IS KEEPING HIM IN THE LIME LIGHT. AND MAKING YOUR SELF LOOK LIKE A FOOL. FOR SOME DOLLAR. TESTIMONIAL OR JUST REVENGE...

Rita said...
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Anonymous said...

Tell your story. No one can feel the hurt you have suffered as a result of what this man has done to you. I learned from some of the same hurt, that exposing the devil will bring you comfort, peace and victory!

Anonymous said...

I'm glad she has come out with how he really was. I couldn't understand why any woman would want to take advice from someone who so blatantly disrespected his wives. If I ever decided to read his book, it would be one I checked out from the library. If he were really changed, he would have told the entire story, and he would also not have treated her so poorly regarding finances and their son. It will be interesting to see how this "godly" man handles this.

Anonymous said...

Think about it ladies... that what his book is trying to explain to you... you ladies constantly put yourselves in a position to be played... even the way they met she presented a challenge full of preconceived notions and she came to him... What is her problem... she got played and she is mad at him

Anonymous said...

No her problem is that she lives in a world where blaming the victim is a prominent activity. "She got played and she is mad?" Why shouldn't she be? At what point will victimizers cease to be the people who determine the validity of people's emotional responses?

I know, let's pretend that the world really is as you say anon. Why don't all oppressed people just kill themselves...that way they garner no further blame for their oppression. Does that sound like a good idea, genius? So if you are an African American in the US...kill yourself. If you are a woman who has been "played" by a brotha who has yet to realize that he is oppressing others, kill yourself. Then only the so-called strong will survive with no more victims to blame. I am sure that the earth will welcome the eventual extinction of humanity.

Anonymous said...

Stop Talking. Hire the best attorney and allow your attorney to tell your story as you walk to the bank.

Unknown said...

All I can say is WOW! If what she says is true, I don't see him in the same light. To leave the mother of your son with nothing? She was the one that was with him during the struggle. She was the one who slept in the car with him, not Marge. At that time Marge might not have given him the time of day. I am a married man ( married to a woman who was born with a vagina. Just want to clear that up. Got to be specific now a days) and I could not see me doing that to a woman who was with me during the struggle. And that shows you something about women. That want to jump in after all the hard work is done.

Anonymous said...

Steve, Steve, Steve I thought you were a beter man than that. I pray that as you serve the Risen Savior that you do the right thing concerning your ex wife. I see why they call us men DOGS, stop all your barking and start licking your wounds. I see everything you touch now really has no class. Your game show, I see why they give you those simple questions, you have lowered our standard that we are working to over come. Perhaps you need to really experience what being doen again feels like. You turned me off!!

Anonymous said...

As tragic as her story is I don't think this a case of blame the victim, It is a matter of learning from your mistakes and being honest with yourself. she admitted that she put up with his nonsense and if you listen to him when he answers strawberry letters it is clear that he knows that men including himself lie all day if they are allowed to. That is why he said it is wise for woman to think like a man, not to be a man but know that there are men who will lie and if you don't know how to think like them you will be hurt. those are just the facts, He is trying to protect women from himself.
I pray he has grown. He does owe it to his first wife to properly close this situation. it seems Steve like so many other men in the same situation cant face what has happen so he chooses to escape and ignore it. Additionally we can never forget there are at least two sides to every story.

Anonymous said...

I knew it. I had no interest in reading his book. I was on a business trip with a colleague and she was so desperate to get his book that we stopped at a bookstore off the highway. I thought if you are almost 50 years old and need advice from this fool about how you need to act to keep a man, then you are a bigger fool than him. I had no desire to read his crap. Who is he? Ladies, take your life lessons and learn from them.

Anonymous said...

I'd like to thank the brothers in this form who are really looking at Steve for what he really is: A Fraud... When I first heard about his book my spiritual discernment took over. Everything this women spoke about her marriage to Steve is true. I discerned something seriously wrong when Mary spoke at the Soul Train Awards, it was all over her face, and Steve was busted. I quickly knew it was concerning another women, and Mary still stood strong when Steve the fraud proudly walked up to recieve his award / not deserved at all. I did not purchase his book. I picked up his book from a relative, and I couldn't even get pass the first couple pages. I put the book down and never picked it up again. *Steve Harvey wrote this book to cover his ass because he knew he set his x-wife up wrongfully during their divorce. He knew that once the divorce scandle hit the airwave and the media he would loose the blackwomens vote, and thats where a huge portion of his money comes from, lets tell the truth ladies.
I have lost all interest and respect for Steve Harvey. Steve Harvey and his new wife has sown a bad seed, both of them will reap a just harvest. Yes God does forgive, but God will not go against his word: What so ever a man soweth, he shall also reapeth a harvest in his day... Be encourage Mary... right is right, and wrong is wrong, there is no other way anybody can fix Steve's and his new wife's lies. I applaud you for being strong enough to come forward with the truth, and you have a right to tell your story to the world. My name is Dianna H., and I'm not afraid to speakout. Blessings Blessings Blessings to you Mary, you are a strong blackwomen, and what affects you, affects all of us, because we are all in one body. Steve will never get a dime from my pockets, and family feud stinks, and I don't watch any of his other shows. I don't like liars, and church folk phonies... Steve can get in line with all the Eddie Longs of this world, and he'll just be waiting just like all the rest of them going nowhere at all. What goes up must come down.

Anonymous said...

Kudos to her but there are always three sides to a story...yours, his and the truth!! Steve is no different than any other man and its unfortunate but as far as Marjorie is concerned she needs to realize the way she got him may be the way she looses him. Good luck to Mary on her next step forward!

Anonymous said...

As a counselor,I immediately evaluated Steve's values as I listened to his Strawberry Letter comments, and also the many comments he makes in general. I would voice my ideas to my husband as they come up. As a result of my many ideas,I was glad to see his wife Mary's account of their marriage. She is telling the truth. I can also remember his way that he and Marjorie met. The ways are not the same. My first impression of Mary was that perhaps she is missing the fame and glory. She is hurting! Any knowledgeable person can see this. Her son Wynham must realize that she is the only mother he will have. Of course he is living the big life now, but his mom is still in the background. I never want to judge, but I believe the saying that whatever is done in the dark will come to light. Steve is street smart, and it shows in his mannerisms and speech. Mary, Marjorie, Steve and others have my blessings and concern. I will continue to look, read and listen to his shows, but my personal evaluations will also continue. As for the Oprah Show lawsuit, just put it into the hands of the Lord. He will make it right. Oprah is no fool. Neither is Tyler Perry who to me snubbed Nephew Tommy.

Anonymous said...

I have been open minded. I've listened to Harvey on air, on Oprah and have tried NOT to gag. He's the biggest fraud I've ever heard. His behavior was so embarrassing on Oprah, I had to turn it off. He is NO relationship guru. Maybe I'm prejudiced, but I'd rather take my advice from someone with the training to ably handle such situations. If I want an opinion from someone like Steve, I'll ask the brother sitting next to me on the train. He's got about as much right to speak on the issue as does Harvey. He'll probably have as more real world sense and compassion. At least he won't try to pimp his popularity.

Anonymous said...

No matter what, no one should be treated this way when you were there to help the other person. I have read the comments that say, she is a hater, she is mad, NO be real people she is hurt and many of you that is writing this type of nonsense has been hurt in your life and hurt is not something to be proud of. Steve is just another human being that has money, but inside he is no better then the next man. A REAL MAN would have not allow this type of information to get out to the public. A REAL MAN handle their business in a respectful matter. OK so what, he may not Loved his wife anymore and wanted to move forward this is not the way to do it. Many men and women do foolish and crazy BS to get out of a relationship. Why not just do the right thing and Speak Up and tell that person and work things out that is best for both of you when there is children involved. I think if more of us would do the right things in this world and stop looking for BS of other people business. Just maybe we could have a better life and future for our children. After you look at these videos. Take a look in the mirror and check yourself what you're about!!!

Don 'Lidzi said...

Its so sad. The way she has fond memories of how they met, then the sadness when things were going bad.

Eish, life. It shouldn't have to be this way.